FROM Anabel

My friend is about to have a summer wedding, a beach wedding at Boracay. She has been very insistent that we better write her checks or give cash and emphasized not giving her gifts. She says she will be furious to anyone who won't be following her request as she and her fiance are planning to pay some part of the wedding expenses coming from guests. Honestly, I feel uncomfortable giving cash as I'd rather give her a gift I could afford because my budget is very limited and breaking down the expenses of having to fly to Boracay, not to mention having to consider what to wear! I feel annoyed having to pay all these!! What will you guys do??